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Domestic abuse, or domestic violence, is defined across Government as any incident of controlling, coercive or threatening behaviour, violence or abuse between those aged 16 or over who are or have been intimate partners or family members, regardless of their gender or sexuality.
The Government has introduced the Domestic Abuse Bill 2020. The bill aims to create a statutory definition of abuse, establish a Domestic Abuse Commissioner and provide for a new Domestic Abuse Protection Notice and Domestic Abuse Protection Order.
What is domestic abuse?
‘Domestic abuse’ covers a range of types of abuse, including, but not limited to: psychological, physical, sexual, financial or emotional abuse.
‘Domestic abuse’ can be prosecuted under a range of offences and the term is used to describe a range of controlling and coercive behaviours, used by one person to maintain control over another. It is usually perpetrated by the person’s partner but can also be committed by a family member or carer. It can happen at any time during a relationship, even after a couple has split.
Domestic abuse is rarely a one-off incident and it is the cumulative and interlinked types of abuse that have a particularly damaging effect on the victim. The ‘domestic’ nature of the offending behaviour is an aggravating factor because of the abuse of trust involved.
Anyone forced to change their behaviour because they are frightened of their partner or ex-partner’s reaction is experiencing abuse.
Who faces domestic abuse?
Men, women and children can all be victims of domestic abuse. Domestic abuse occurs amongst people of all ethnicities, sexualities, ages, disabilities, immigration status, religions or beliefs and socio-economic backgrounds.
The Crown Prosecution Service (CPS) recognises domestic abuse differs in severity between incidents and, more often than not, will increase in frequency and seriousness, having a cumulative impact on the victim/complainant.
The definition includes so-called 'honour' based violence, female genital mutilation (FGM) and forced marriage, and is clear that victims are not confined to one gender or ethnic group.
What is controlling or coercive behaviour?
‘Controlling or coercive behaviour’ describes behaviour within a current or former intimate or family relationship which causes someone to fear that violence will be used against them on more than one occasion, or causes them serious alarm or distress that substantially affects their day-to-day activities.
It involves a pattern of behaviour or incidents that enable a person to exert power or control over another, such as isolating a partner from their friends and family, taking control of their finances, everyday activities like what they wear or who they see, or tracking their movements through the internet or mobile phone use.
The domestic abuse definition specifically states:
Controlling behaviour is: a range of acts designed to make a person subordinate and/or dependant by isolating them from sources of support, exploiting their resources and capacities for personal gain, depriving them of the means needed for independence, resistance and escape and regulating their everyday behaviour.
Coercive behaviour is: an act or a pattern of acts of assaults, threats, humiliation and intimidation or other abuse that is used to harm, punish, or frighten their victim.
So-called ‘honour-based’ violence and forced marriage
So-called ‘honour-based’ violence is a crime or incident committed to protect or defend the so-called ‘honour’ of the family or community. The term can cover a collection of practices used to control behaviour within families or other social groups in order to protect perceived cultural and religious beliefs or honour.
These crimes are included within the domestic abuse definition, but may also be carried out by people who are not partners or family members.
A number of offences can be committed in the context of ‘honour-based’ violence and forced marriage, including common assault, grievous bodily harm (GBH), harassment, kidnap, rape, threats to kill and murder.
Examples of instances that might trigger a so-called ‘honour’ crime include someone becoming involved with a boyfriend or girlfriend from a different culture or religion, wearing clothes or taking part in activities that might not be considered traditional within a particular culture, or seeking a divorce.
Female Genital Mutilation (FGM)
Female Genital Mutilation (FGM) is a collective term for a range of procedures which involve partial or total removal of the external female genitalia for non-medical reasons. It is sometimes referred to as female circumcision, or female genital cutting.
The practice is medically unnecessary, is extremely painful and has serious health consequences, both at the time when the mutilation is carried out and in later life.
FGM has been classified by the World Health Organization (WHO) into four major types, all of which may be relevant to the offences arising under the FGM Act 2003: offence of FGM; offence of assisting a girl to mutate her own genitalia; offence of assisting a non-UK person to mutilate overseas a girl’s genitalia and offence of failing to protect a girl from risk of genital mutilation.
Stalking and harassment
Stalking and harassment occurs not only in a domestic abuse setting – people can be stalked by strangers or acquaintances too.
Stalking is a specific type of harassment, often described as a pattern of unwanted, fixated or obsessive behaviour which is intrusive, and causes fear of violence or serious alarm and distress. For example, a person following, watching or spying on someone else, or forcing contact with them through social media, might be considered as stalking.
Harassment offences involve a ‘course of conduct,’ or repeated actions, which could be expected to cause distress or fear in any reasonable person. This will often include repeated attempts to impose unwanted contact or communication on someone.
Spotting the signs
If you believe that you or someone else could be a victim of domestic abuse, there are signs that you can look out for including:
- Is the partner jealous and possessive?
- Is the partner charming one minute and abusive the next?
- Do they tell the individual what to wear, where to go, who to see?
- Do they play mind games and make the person doubt their judgment?
- Do they control the money?
- Do they apply pressure to the person to have sex when they don’t want to?
- Do they use anger and intimidation to frighten and control the person?
- Do they monitor technology use such as social media platforms?
- Does the individual appear withdrawn?
- Do they have bruises?
- Are their movements or activities restricted, such as not being allowed to leave the house, meet with friends?
For anyone who feels they are at risk of abuse, it is important to remember that there is help and support available to you, including police response, online support, helplines, refuges and other services. You, or they, are not alone.
If you’re worried a friend is being abused, let them know you’ve noticed something is wrong. They might not be ready to talk, but try to find quiet times when they can talk if they choose to.
Hand signal for domestic abuse victims to discreetly ask for help
The Canadian Women’s Foundation created a hand signal to help domestic abuse victims all over the world alert people that they require assistance. It is called the ‘signal for help’. The hand signal involves lifting a hand – for example to the camera in a video call – putting down the thumb over the palm of that hand and then closing the rest of the fingers over the thumb.
24-hour, freephone National Domestic Abuse Helpline 0808 2000 247 www.nationaldahelpline.org.uk
Scotland’s 24-hour Domestic Abuse and Forced Marriage Helpline 0800 027 1234 https://sdafmh.org.uk/
Women’s Aid directory of local domestic abuse services https://www.womensaid.org.uk/domestic-abuse-directory/
Men’s Advice Line 0808 801 0327 https://mensadviceline.org.uk/
FGM national clinical group http://www.fgmnationalgroup.org/within_the_uk.htm
Rape Crisis National Helpline (open 12:00-14:30 and 19:00-21:30 each day) 0808 802 9999 https://rapecrisis.org.uk/ (England and Wales)
Rape Crisis Scotland (open 18:00-00:00 midnight) 08088 01 03 02 https://www.rapecrisisscotland.org.uk/
More advice on how to get help and how to spot the signs can be found on the NHS website.
There is a new scheme launched in conjunction with train operators, called Rail to Refuge, which offers free travel to people escaping domestic abuse.
Office for National Statistics: domestic abuse prevalence and trends